Hotwife Media Review

In the spirit of community and shared discovery I’ve compiled a list of some of the hotwife related media that’s floating around.  Obviously the hotwife thing isn’t exactly widely known and certainly not to the point that it's common in pop culture but...

Hotwives: Here’s how and where to find partners

One of the most common questions I see being asked is where to meet potential partners who are interested or experienced in the hotwife lifestyle. Here’s an attempt to break down the options and offer some resources. *This is not step one when it comes to...

An ideal start to hotwifing

An ideal start? Among the most frequently asked questions when it comes to experiencing the hotwife lifestyle are, how do we get started? Or how do we actually make this fantasy a reality? How do we know if we’re ready to make this happen for real? There’s...

Testing! Testing! Read all about it

It’s often talked about so I thought I would dig in a bit more and provide some resources towards the STD/STI conversation.Look, we’re all adults who are sexually active so we should all be getting tested. Ladies, talk to your gyno about having an open...

Resources for hotwives interested in boudoir photography

Whether you’ve been a hotwife for years or it’s something you’re just considering, you’ve probably thought about doing a boudoir photoshoot at some point and time. In my early days posting on reddit someone sent me a message asking if I’d do a quick...

Date night clothing resources

I'm sure every lady here can understand the struggle of trying to find the right thing to wear all the damn time. Date nights I tend to be a lazy bum cause I get overwhelmed trying to find a mix of sexy, cute, comfy, easy access, etc etc. It's exhausting...
Hotwife Media Review

Hotwife Media Review

In the spirit of community and shared discovery I’ve compiled a list of some of the hotwife related media that’s floating around.  Obviously the hotwife thing isn’t exactly widely known and certainly not to the point that it's common in pop culture but...

read more
Hotwives: Here’s how and where to find partners

Hotwives: Here’s how and where to find partners

One of the most common questions I see being asked is where to meet potential partners who are interested or experienced in the hotwife lifestyle. Here’s an attempt to break down the options and offer some resources. *This is not step one when it comes to...

read more
An ideal start to hotwifing

An ideal start to hotwifing

An ideal start? Among the most frequently asked questions when it comes to experiencing the hotwife lifestyle are, how do we get started? Or how do we actually make this fantasy a reality? How do we know if we’re ready to make this happen for real? There’s...

read more
Testing! Testing! Read all about it

Testing! Testing! Read all about it

It’s often talked about so I thought I would dig in a bit more and provide some resources towards the STD/STI conversation.Look, we’re all adults who are sexually active so we should all be getting tested. Ladies, talk to your gyno about having an open...

read more
Resources for hotwives interested in boudoir photography

Resources for hotwives interested in boudoir photography

Whether you’ve been a hotwife for years or it’s something you’re just considering, you’ve probably thought about doing a boudoir photoshoot at some point and time. In my early days posting on reddit someone sent me a message asking if I’d do a quick...

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Date night clothing resources

Date night clothing resources

I'm sure every lady here can understand the struggle of trying to find the right thing to wear all the damn time. Date nights I tend to be a lazy bum cause I get overwhelmed trying to find a mix of sexy, cute, comfy, easy access, etc etc. It's exhausting...

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An update of sorts

An update of sorts

It would be hard to write a concise update since this hotwife journey has been a long and wild one but since I haven’t written any sort of date night update in awhile I thought I’d start there. It’s actually quite a tame or boring update as I’m still...

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Vetting potential partners: Here’s how I do it

Vetting potential partners: Here’s how I do it

There’s no one way to vet guys, in my opinion. I don’t even do it the same way every time but I figured I’d try to throw together some of the things that come up when it comes to narrowing down potential partners.It all starts with an initial message....

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Finding a Third (online)

Finding a Third (online)

When you first start figuring out how to make this fantasy a reality a (very) large part of the equation is who you feel comfortable involving in your kink. Obviously finding someone who you are compatible with is up to you but hopefully I can assist you...

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“Catching feelings”

“Catching feelings”

Emotions.  We all have them yet we seem to want to pretend they don’t exist when it comes to this lifestyle. It’s always fascinated me the lengths people will go to in order to avoid ‘catching feelings’ or having any emotions for the people they hookup...

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Finding a third is easy

Finding a third is easy

Finding a third is easyFInd a quality third is a different story.There’s obviously a lot of posts that bemoan the fact that it’s incredibly hard to find men to join a couple. I promise you, it’s not. Your wife could open your front door and yell that she’s...

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Hotwife Misadventures

Hotwife Misadventures

I’m selfishly hoping I’m not the only one here but I’ve had my fair share of hotwife ‘misadventures’ along the way. Figured I’d share some of the various embarrassing moments in hopes that 1. You all have some too and 2. Just to share that we all have our...

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The hotwife date night playlist

The hotwife date night playlist

 I’ve considered sharing some music here for ages but I always overthink it so please excuse the ‘chaos’ that is this playlist. Over the years that I’ve been doing this hotwife thing I’ve created a bunch of little traditions, routines, rituals, whatever...

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The number one complaint amongst hotwives

The number one complaint amongst hotwives

The number one complaint amongst hotwives. I’ve been enjoying this lifestyle for about 5 years now (little longer maybe) and in that time I’ve been fortunate enough to get to know many hotwives and learn about their successes, failures, joys and...

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What I’m looking for start to finish

What I’m looking for start to finish

What I want...I thinkEverything from the initial message to what do do after we meet up, it's all here.  Here’s the general flow of how I choose a guy and what I’d like and what I don’t want to deal with. Let’s just call it another well intentioned rant...

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A collection of hotwife captions

A collection of hotwife captions

Here's a few of my favorite hotwife captions, memes, gifs and infographics that I think you'll appreciate and/or find helpful.  [gallery type="rectangular" size="medium" link="file"...

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What I find sexy

What I find sexy

If I find it sexy you'll find it here.  I'm often asked what I'm into or what kinds of things turn me on and it's hard to articulate at times but it's easy to give you a visual peek into what I find downright steamy and sexy. Here's a little collection of the images...

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May I have 6 minutes of your time please

May I have 6 minutes of your time please

Before you watch this clip you'll have to sit and hear me out. You're about to check out a clip from Unfaithful. If you've seen it you're aware that is it not at all a hotwife situation and that everything ends terribly for everyone and if you haven't, omg go and...

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Hotwife Date Night: milf & cookies edition

Hotwife Date Night: milf & cookies edition

The dichotomy of housewife/hotwife has intrigued me from day one and I finally had a little moment where worlds collided. If you know me, you know that some of my favorite things are baking and fucking, so you can imagine I was tickled to be able to...

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Hotwife Seduction: A well intentioned rant

Hotwife Seduction: A well intentioned rant

  So I posted recently looking for a summer fling (that's going swimmingly btw but that's neither here nor there). In chatting with so many new guys I been asked "So, what are you into" or some variation a million times this week. I know it's a perfectly legit...

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Hotwife FAQ

Hotwife FAQ

You have questions...I have answers! I get a lot of messages and a lot of questions, Here’s the most common and frequently asked. We came to hotwifing via swinging…well we weren’t actually swinging but we were talking about it as something that might be fun to try…one...

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The best wife centric subreddits to check out

The best wife centric subreddits to check out

r/HotWifeLifestyle Everything Hotwife!! /r/hotwiferequests Post location and what you're looking for /r/dirtykikpals Find men, women and couples to sext with /r/dirtyr4r Find fellow kinky redditors to meet IRL /r/BDSMpersonals If you're looking for a D/s twist to your...

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The Dirty Dozen Questionnaire

The Dirty Dozen Questionnaire

Here's a quick questionnaire for my fellow hotwives. It's all in good fun so don't fuss over having a perfect answer, just be honest. It's anonymous and mostly to indulge my own curiosities about what you ladies are up to behind closed doors....

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My Hotwife Interview

My Hotwife Interview

I was recently asked by The Cuckold consultant to partake in an interview with him about my hotwife lifestyle. I've been waiting to share it here and now that it's live on his site I'd love for you all to check it out. I was happy to share details of what this...

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A visual reminder of why I love being a hotwife

A visual reminder of why I love being a hotwife

Taken the morning after a very fun night with a fwb in NYC. I was lucky enough to have a room to myself and a lot of time on my hands. Naturally I invited a friend to join me and we made the most of the night. When I woke up the next day I remembered that it's little...

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Another relatable song

Another relatable song

As a hotwife you'll find lots of men talk a big ol' game but when it comes down to it they flake, ghost, or fade; this song reminded me of them.  https://open.spotify.com/track/4ZJPwET9Jrgpkqi4Vo3Yg8

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Hotwife Music

Hotwife Music

  There’s a serious lack of hotwife media out there, don’t you agree? So let’s do something about that...kind of. Since I’m always on the lookout for music that speaks to my ‘hotwife mind’ I’d like to collaborate and come up with a playlist befitting those in the...

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New Year, Same Guy.

New Year, Same Guy.

Midas got back in touch just before closing out 2016. While I'm always a fan of repeats Midas is especially fun because we've met up so many times that I'm comfortable hanging out and having a great time with him. Also he can cum in me so there's that.  So plans have...

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A series of unfortunate texts

A series of unfortunate texts

The vast majority of the conversations I have are positive but every now and then something like this happens. It's an unfortunate reminder that there's a lot of misconceptions about this hotwife fantasy, about me and about how most couples navigate this kink. I...

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Hotwife Terminology

Hotwife Terminology

Generally speaking, I'm not one for labels (or set standards) when it comes to fantasy and kink. In the case of the hotwife lifestyle and enjoying a non monogamous lifestyle there's so many labels, acronyms, etc that I thought it might be helpful to put together a...

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Cheater Cheater Pumpkin Eater

Cheater Cheater Pumpkin Eater

It would be impossible for me to be unbiased but for this post I’m going to do my best to present the facts as impartially as possible. After a recent meetup with a somewhat frequent fwb our thinking is a little cloudy and we figured sharing here might help us sort...

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Hotwife Copycat

Hotwife Copycat

I’m not a fan of people copying me, in any aspect of my life. It always has and always will deeply irritate me. So imagine how fun it’s been to get messages and emails from people saying that they want advice, tips, info on how to make a site like mine, a blog like...

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Forever a nervous hotwife

Forever a nervous hotwife

I still get nervous. I am asked all the time by wives that worry about those hotwife butterflies and when they can expect them to subside. Sorry, ladies but mine have yet to do so. To be honest I’m nervous from the time we figure out a time and place until 15 minutes...

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The hotwife guide to finding partners

The hotwife guide to finding partners

In an effort to offer some practical advice I thought I’d try my hand at compiling some info that might come in handy when you’re brand new to this fantasy. When you first start figuring out how to make this fantasy a reality a (very) large part of the equation is who...

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Practical Advice for editing your hotwife photos and videos

Practical Advice for editing your hotwife photos and videos

I am asked quite often what I use to blur video/pics that I’ve posted and I know it’s taken me awhile to get around to writing it all out but, here it is.   So if you’re a hotwife (or hotwife couple) you may have some inclination to share your adventures online....

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Give an inch…they take a mile

Give an inch…they take a mile

  I’m a little tired of everyone pushing the envelope. I am not a fan of people who I feel like are the type that you give an inch and they take a mile; there seems to be an abundance of these types out there (especially on tinder). Like I’m 100% down for some...

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A Crazy Awkward Date Night

A Crazy Awkward Date Night

The first meeting with The Ranger is just so different that I had to share. Obviously I’m a fan of this hotwife thing and there’s plenty of sexy and thrilling aspects and I try to share those often but what I’ve come to love are the random and often truly awkward...

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Pavlov’s Hotwife

Pavlov’s Hotwife

The guys I meet usually pick up the tab for room if we're meeting at a hotel so I always offer to pick up drinks or anything else we may want or need for the night. I'm also usually running late so I tend to run into the same place, grab the same bottle of wine and...

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Auto-correct Fails

Auto-correct Fails

'Ducking' is so 2014! My phone 'corrects' repeats to rapists. It also 'corrects' kiss to kill...No biggie...until I'm texting someone about how I really prefer repeats in regards to meeting guys or how much I can't wait to 'kiss' them. It makes for some awkward moments.

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You know you’re a hotwife when…

You know you’re a hotwife when…

I’ve had a few moments when I’ve thought “OK, I’m definitely all in on this hotwife thing”...so after the umptenth time I said it we started keeping a running list of the silly things that make us think “Yup, hotwifing has infiltrated our lives”. So I made a silly...

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Husbands…You’re asking for a lot…

Husbands…You’re asking for a lot…

Um...hotwife husbands….let’s not forget that by asking us ladies to live out this fantasy your kind of asking a lot of us. I know it can be rough for you guys to come around to this fantasy too and there’s a lot of trial and error on everyone’s part but at the end of...

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A Story From His POV

A Story From His POV

A few days ago I posted about wanting to meet a redditor so that I could surprise my husband with a post here and he'd finally get a glimpse into the pov of my date that he's been wanting since we started this hotwife fun...well to my surprise and delight the amazing...

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PSA/Rant for the guys

PSA/Rant for the guys

  Don’t Over promise! Please just stop. It’s not doing you any favors and it’s quite disappointing to us wives & couples.   I’m sure your 13” cock is flawless and can do amazing things. I’m sure you’re the heaviest cummer this side of the Mississippi and of...

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