The number one complaint amongst hotwives

The number one complaint amongst hotwives. I’ve been enjoying this lifestyle for about 5 years now (little longer maybe) and in that time I’ve been fortunate enough to get to know many hotwives and learn about their successes, failures, joys and...

What I’m looking for start to finish

What I want...I thinkEverything from the initial message to what do do after we meet up, it's all here.  Here’s the general flow of how I choose a guy and what I’d like and what I don’t want to deal with. Let’s just call it another well intentioned rant...

A collection of hotwife captions

Here's a few of my favorite hotwife captions, memes, gifs and infographics that I think you'll appreciate and/or find helpful.  [gallery type="rectangular" size="medium" link="file"...

What I find sexy

If I find it sexy you'll find it here.  I'm often asked what I'm into or what kinds of things turn me on and it's hard to articulate at times but it's easy to give you a visual peek into what I find downright steamy and sexy. Here's a little collection of the images...

Come play with me…on Twitch!

While it's not quite in the hotwife realm of things I thought I'd share  that you can now come hang with me on Twitch! I'm usually answering emails, on snapchat and/or replying to messages while I game so I figured I'd combine the two and invite you all to...

Come hang out in The BullPen

I'm so excited so share a new area on Curvyhotwife.com with you. It's called The BullPen and it's a new blog authored by an amazing bull who we'll call J. I've always enjoyed sharing my hotwife point of view but as a hotwife there are so many aspects of...

May I have 6 minutes of your time please

Before you watch this clip you'll have to sit and hear me out. You're about to check out a clip from Unfaithful. If you've seen it you're aware that is it not at all a hotwife situation and that everything ends terribly for everyone and if you haven't, omg go and...

Hotwife Date Night: milf & cookies edition

The dichotomy of housewife/hotwife has intrigued me from day one and I finally had a little moment where worlds collided. If you know me, you know that some of my favorite things are baking and fucking, so you can imagine I was tickled to be able to...
Give an inch…they take a mile

Give an inch…they take a mile

  I’m a little tired of everyone pushing the envelope. I am not a fan of people who I feel like are the type that you give an inch and they take a mile; there seems to be an abundance of these types out there (especially on tinder). Like I’m 100% down for some...

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A Crazy Awkward Date Night

A Crazy Awkward Date Night

The first meeting with The Ranger is just so different that I had to share. Obviously I’m a fan of this hotwife thing and there’s plenty of sexy and thrilling aspects and I try to share those often but what I’ve come to love are the random and often truly awkward...

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Pavlov’s Hotwife

Pavlov’s Hotwife

The guys I meet usually pick up the tab for room if we're meeting at a hotel so I always offer to pick up drinks or anything else we may want or need for the night. I'm also usually running late so I tend to run into the same place, grab the same bottle of wine and...

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Auto-correct Fails

Auto-correct Fails

'Ducking' is so 2014! My phone 'corrects' repeats to rapists. It also 'corrects' kiss to kill...No biggie...until I'm texting someone about how I really prefer repeats in regards to meeting guys or how much I can't wait to 'kiss' them. It makes for some awkward moments.

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You know you’re a hotwife when…

You know you’re a hotwife when…

I’ve had a few moments when I’ve thought “OK, I’m definitely all in on this hotwife thing”...so after the umptenth time I said it we started keeping a running list of the silly things that make us think “Yup, hotwifing has infiltrated our lives”. So I made a silly...

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Husbands…You’re asking for a lot…

Husbands…You’re asking for a lot…

Um...hotwife husbands….let’s not forget that by asking us ladies to live out this fantasy your kind of asking a lot of us. I know it can be rough for you guys to come around to this fantasy too and there’s a lot of trial and error on everyone’s part but at the end of...

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A Story From His POV

A Story From His POV

A few days ago I posted about wanting to meet a redditor so that I could surprise my husband with a post here and he'd finally get a glimpse into the pov of my date that he's been wanting since we started this hotwife fun...well to my surprise and delight the amazing...

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PSA/Rant for the guys

PSA/Rant for the guys

  Don’t Over promise! Please just stop. It’s not doing you any favors and it’s quite disappointing to us wives & couples.   I’m sure your 13” cock is flawless and can do amazing things. I’m sure you’re the heaviest cummer this side of the Mississippi and of...

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Getting Closer to Making it a Reality

Getting Closer to Making it a Reality

I thought this might help those of you who are looking for advice about starting out in making this hot wife fantasy a reality. I don't have a sure fire way to make your wife go running to fuck the milkman but I do know what worked for us. After a lot of communication...

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Our Online Dating Profile

Our Online Dating Profile

I've noticed a lot of posts from folks new to this kink who want to find single guys/bulls...we've had incredible luck online and thought we'd share our profile since setting one up is pretty much the first step if you looking online for guys. We spell out what we...

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Crushes? NRE? Just curious about a few things

Crushes? NRE? Just curious about a few things

Besides the standard celeb crush what’s the take having a crush within the hotwife context? We've been talking about it a lot and the conversation is basically trying to figure out if every guy I chat with/meet is a crush b/c I’m initially interested and attracted to...

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The shoe is on the other foot now

The shoe is on the other foot now

Oh OK guys; I think I get this hotwife thing now. Well I understand it a little bit clearer from the ‘husband's’ point of view…and I gotta say I think I like it. My husband has been chatting on kik with a lovely (a beautiful) girl for a little while now. The other...

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Quick Hotwife Vent

Quick Hotwife Vent

I left my favorite sunglasses at a guy's place...they're probably still sitting there on his coffee table all these weeks later. Unfortunately it's not worth even trying to get the back from him since 1. I didn't have the best time and 2. He lives a few hours away and...

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What do Hotwives look for in a bull?

What do Hotwives look for in a bull?

I want someone who understands and appreciates this kink enough to know that they are an addition to an already amazing sex life. Being respectful of my marriage and my time goes a long way. I love the back and forth of getting to know someone but there’s a fine line...

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Re-evaluating my age guidelines…

Re-evaluating my age guidelines…

  I'm currently re-evaluating my self-imposed age guidelines and I'd like to hear how everyone else comes up with their numbers. I’m 30 (hubby is 33) and currently my rules is to only meet with guys who are between 26 and 39. There’s no real solid reason why I go...

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Sometimes it’s those little moments….

Sometimes it’s those little moments….

Sometimes they’re fleeting and sometimes they linger…they’re just as intoxicating in the moment as they are in memory. As a hotwife couple we get to experience something behind closed doors that most people don’t ever get to and I couldn't be more grateful for that....

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Do things escalate…or is it just me?

Do things escalate…or is it just me?

Could it be that the novelty of ‘just’ hotwifing wears off so it only makes sense to let the fantasy escalate to another level and try new things, new people, and new acts? We've been doing this hotwife thing for a few months now and we’re thoroughly enjoying...

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Before you send me a message read this

Before you send me a message read this

It appears that quite a few of you have similar questions and requests that have kind of taken over my inbox. As much as I'd like to respond to each of them and meet all of you that's just not going to happen....so here's a rundown of our deal with this hotwife kink...

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