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Where to find partners

One of the most common questions I see being asked is where to meet potential partners who are interested or experienced in the hotwife lifestyle. Here’s an attempt to break down the options and offer some resources. *This is not step one when it comes to...

Hotwife Media Review

In the spirit of community and shared discovery I’ve compiled a list of some of the hotwife related media that’s floating around. Obviously the hotwife thing isn’t exactly widely known and certainly not to the point that it's common in pop culture but...

An ideal start to hotwifing

An ideal start? Among the most frequently asked questions when it comes to experiencing the hotwife lifestyle are, how do we get started? Or how do we actually make this fantasy a reality? How do we know if we’re ready to make this happen for real? There’s...

Resources for hotwives interested in boudoir photography

Whether you’ve been a hotwife for years or it’s something you’re just considering, you’ve probably thought about doing a boudoir photoshoot at some point and time. In my early days posting on reddit someone sent me a message asking if I’d do a quick...

Vetting potential partners: Here’s how I do it

There’s no one way to vet guys, in my opinion. I don’t even do it the same way every time but I figured I’d try to throw together some of the things that come up when it comes to narrowing down potential partners.It all starts with an initial message....

Finding a Third (online)

When you first start figuring out how to make this fantasy a reality a (very) large part of the equation is who you feel comfortable involving in your kink. Obviously finding someone who you are compatible with is up to you but hopefully I can assist you...

“Catching feelings”

Emotions. We all have them yet we seem to want to pretend they don’t exist when it comes to this lifestyle. It’s always fascinated me the lengths people will go to in order to avoid ‘catching feelings’ or having any emotions for the people they hookup...

Hotwife Lifestyle Starters Guide: From Reaction to Action. Step 0. Part 1

How do you go from the initial reaction to this lifestyle to actually partaking?Damned if I know. Kidding, I think I can kinda help here but my advice comes with a caveat, you won’t like it and it takes time, trust and a lot of self awareness.Typically I...

If you get bad JuJu…Cancel!

For Wives

Every so often we come across a person, situation or offer that just rubs us the wrong way. I don't usually post about it because we just let it go and move on but since this isn't the usual catfish story I figured I'd share. We've been in touch with *Arnold (not his...

HW Tips & Tricks: My 2 Minute Rule

For Wives

I don't know about everyone else but I get so nervous before meeting someone, especially if it’s the first meeting. There’s the obvious worry that you're meeting a legit person (safety first), and then the adrenaline from being in such an awesome situation, the...

Good & Bad Messages We’ve Received…single guys take note!

For Single Guys

So to help out a few of you 'bulls' & single guys looking to join a couple or get with a hotwife here's a list of what not to do and what worked for us. The bad messages: I included the entirety of the message (minus names/phone numbers), obviously they didn't get...

It isn’t always rainbows & sunshine. Unfortunately there are times that mistakes are made, rules bent or broken….

For Couples

While we've enjoyed our time indulging in this kink it doesn't come without its setbacks. I thought I'd share them too since I post a lot of hotwife positive material...it's only fair to see both sides of the coin. So while we're in the thick of it here goes.... I...

What I need from my husband in order to be a happy Hotwife

For Wives

Somehow it only recently occurred to me that I have a list of things that I need fulfilled in order to participate in this kink with my husband. We've talked about the things that make him comfortable with it, talked about safety issues, std's, respect &...

Still on the fence? I have a few reasons that might help ‘convince’ you.

For Wives

I get a lot of messages from guys asking how to convince their lady to try this out...that and a lot of dick pics...sooo many dick pics, guys! So I'm not a fan of talking someone into doing something they're not interested in. A lot of you have shy/religious/vanilla...

Single Guys…Here’s My Advice On How To Get In On This HotWife Kink

For Single Guys

After reading a few posts asking how to get in on this hotwife thing as a single guy I thought I'd throw my two cents out here. After meeting a few they all have mentioned how hard it is as a single guy to get noticed by a couple online and that most women are too...