Vetting potential partners: Here’s how I do it

There’s no one way to vet guys, in my opinion. I don’t even do it the same way every time but I figured I’d try to throw together some of the things that come up when it comes to narrowing down potential partners.It all starts with an initial message....

Finding a Third (online)

When you first start figuring out how to make this fantasy a reality a (very) large part of the equation is who you feel comfortable involving in your kink. Obviously finding someone who you are compatible with is up to you but hopefully I can assist you...

“Catching feelings”

Emotions.  We all have them yet we seem to want to pretend they don’t exist when it comes to this lifestyle. It’s always fascinated me the lengths people will go to in order to avoid ‘catching feelings’ or having any emotions for the people they hookup...

Hotwife Lifestyle Starters Guide: From Reaction to Action. Step 0. Part 1

How do you go from the initial reaction to this lifestyle to actually partaking?Damned if I know. Kidding, I think I can kinda help here but my advice comes with a caveat, you won’t like it and it takes time, trust and a lot of self awareness.Typically I...

Hotwife FAQ

You have questions...I have answers! I get a lot of messages and a lot of questions, Here’s the most common and frequently asked. We came to hotwifing via swinging…well we weren’t actually swinging but we were talking about it as something that might be fun to try…one...

The best wife centric subreddits to check out

r/HotWifeLifestyle Everything Hotwife!! /r/hotwiferequests Post location and what you're looking for /r/dirtykikpals Find men, women and couples to sext with /r/dirtyr4r Find fellow kinky redditors to meet IRL /r/BDSMpersonals If you're looking for a D/s twist to your...

The Dirty Dozen Questionnaire

Here's a quick questionnaire for my fellow hotwives. It's all in good fun so don't fuss over having a perfect answer, just be honest. It's anonymous and mostly to indulge my own curiosities about what you ladies are up to behind closed doors....

Hotwife Terminology

Generally speaking, I'm not one for labels (or set standards) when it comes to fantasy and kink. In the case of the hotwife lifestyle and enjoying a non monogamous lifestyle there's so many labels, acronyms, etc that I thought it might be helpful to put together a...

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